Nerves

Well, it has finally happened.  D and I got on each others' nerves in an extra big way recently.

Triggered by a number of things:

• His decreased exercising 
• My increased exercising 
• Him realizing he hasn't taken more than 2 days off this year
• My feeling down about the prospect of zero international travel this year and dealing with the insurance claim process
• Him being on a new prescription that increases his metabolism which is having an adverse effect on his long distance cycling
• Me wanting him to take more responsibility for his health 
• Him not eating enough to counteract this new med
• Me feeling tired of trying to meal plan for him
• Him missing being able to have a drink (to be avoided with the med)
• Me drinking more (one drink every 1 - 2 weeks)
• Him being gluten and dairy sensitive
• Me working on being meat free
• His communication weaknesses in our relationship
• Me being at home way more than before
• His tendancy to spew out negativity and hostility when he cannot manage things
• Me refusing to be his emotional punching bag
• Me holding him to adult standards
• Him not liking that